What happens when you blog about weight loss, have a feature like Skanky Tuesday, post about the Psychotic Slut Zone, ask “Can Fat Be Sexy,” reveal The Plan, and provide a contact form on your website?

Very interesting emails happen.

A short while ago I received an email saying:

You’re cute. Curious what your current situation is — living at home, or on your own, that sort of thing.

How long is your hair these days? I can’t tell from the picture.

What sort of work are you doing while you study opera? is it related to your studies?

You could probably use a sugar daddy. I could help support you.

I can’t resist responding… I mean, I HAVE to. It’s so ridiculous. I can’t ever just let these things go. I respond:
 
You have actually read my blog? I mean, you know I’m not thin. Besides, how do I know that you’re legit?
 
He sends me to a site where he has a profile linked to the same email. It’s a Sugar Daddy site where they actually verify the identity and income of the men. Holy Shit. He also says:
 
you’re referring to your weight? there are some other benefits to that; i’m assuming you’re a d cup, that sort of thing.

you’re submissive as well, which is a plus.

Oh, my friends, there is so much wrong with this response… First of all, capitalize your letters pervy man. Second, submissive??? Have you actually read anything I’ve said here? I mean really…

My curiosity is killing me, though, I want to know exactly who this guy is. I do some internet stalking with his email, first name, and other information I have about him. Apparently his net worth is $2-5 million, he’s 46, owns his own business, and lives in Seattle. I don’t have enough information, though, and never discover his actual identity.

I respond with a few well chosen words letting him know what I think about his “submissive” comment. He must be dense. He responds:

thinking about your reply — is there anyone that would care that you are seeing a man? fiance, husband, boyfriend, etc?
Verified millionaire or not, no thank you.

I thank my good common sense that I did not use my personal email (containing my full name) for this website, wonder about how much is too much when it comes to sharing online, and decide that one Sugar Daddy wannabe isn’t going to change my honesty and content here. It does remind me, though, that I’m glad to have stayed mostly anonymous.

If any other potential Sugar Daddies want to show an interest in furthering my opera career please remember proper punctuation and don’t make the mistake of calling me “submissive.”

Maybe I should get a paypal account…

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Sweeter than Sugar October 5, 2010, 9:21 pm

Hmm I don't know which is more disturbing; the messages you got or that there is a part of me that would have been a little tempted to accept his offer! ;O

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Sweeter than Sugar October 5, 2010, 9:21 pm

Hmm I don't know which is more disturbing; the messages you got or that there is a part of me that would have been a little tempted to accept his offer! ;O

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Kendra October 5, 2010, 9:21 pm

I know, right?

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Kendra October 5, 2010, 9:21 pm

I know, right?

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Sweeter than Sugar October 5, 2010, 11:16 pm

Yeah. Probably it's just because I'm feeling a bit lonely and I'm pretty tired of being strong and doing everything for myself. It would be so nice to have a strong shoulder to lean on, you know? So yes I guess it's not so much the financial aspect of the whole thing but just the idea of having someone who would take care of me. Although when it comes down to it I would have done the same thing as you and rejected him.

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Sweeter than Sugar October 5, 2010, 11:16 pm

Yeah. Probably it's just because I'm feeling a bit lonely and I'm pretty tired of being strong and doing everything for myself. It would be so nice to have a strong shoulder to lean on, you know? So yes I guess it's not so much the financial aspect of the whole thing but just the idea of having someone who would take care of me. Although when it comes down to it I would have done the same thing as you and rejected him.

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GA Girl October 6, 2010, 12:03 am

Wow, that is totally disturbing and somewhat funny at the same time! Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

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GA Girl October 6, 2010, 12:03 am

Wow, that is totally disturbing and somewhat funny at the same time! Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

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Jennifer October 6, 2010, 12:57 am

Ok…ummm…eeeeuuuuwwwwww!!!

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Jennifer October 6, 2010, 12:57 am

Ok…ummm…eeeeuuuuwwwwww!!!

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Sava October 6, 2010, 5:51 am

Ha, this cracked me up.
I had a friend who accepted a request from some random woman on Facebook, and he would get a post on his wall one week saying,
"Hey, my husband's outta town, wanna go out?" and then two days later she would be like,

"I just got out of a relationship and I need someone to fool around with, are you free this weekend?"

and then he would get another "husband" comment a couple days later.

Definitely a Bot doing the talking, but it was good for some laughs πŸ˜›

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Sava October 6, 2010, 5:51 am

Ha, this cracked me up.
I had a friend who accepted a request from some random woman on Facebook, and he would get a post on his wall one week saying,
"Hey, my husband's outta town, wanna go out?" and then two days later she would be like,

"I just got out of a relationship and I need someone to fool around with, are you free this weekend?"

and then he would get another "husband" comment a couple days later.

Definitely a Bot doing the talking, but it was good for some laughs πŸ˜›

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justabitwicked.com October 6, 2010, 6:14 am

Holy crap..you never know who can pop out and contact you! And of course, he's a bit skeevy. I gotta admit, a part of me would be a bit interested in finding out more about a millionaire to help out with some school bills. Oh my, thanks for the chuckle!

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justabitwicked.com October 6, 2010, 6:14 am

Holy crap..you never know who can pop out and contact you! And of course, he's a bit skeevy. I gotta admit, a part of me would be a bit interested in finding out more about a millionaire to help out with some school bills. Oh my, thanks for the chuckle!

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